What Long-Term Lovers Know (That Most Don’t)
The thing about being with someone for a long time? You think you’ve got it all figured out. You know their habits. You’ve memorised the playlist. You’ve done the moves. So when it comes to sex, it’s easy to fall into a rhythm that’s… fine. Familiar. Safe. But here’s what most couples don’t realise:Familiarity doesn’t […]
#SAME TBH: Why Listening Might Be the Sexiest Thing You Do
Be honest—most guys grow up thinking great sex is about performance. You know the list: It’s all about being impressive. In control. “Good.” But here’s the twist: the best sex doesn’t come from memorising the right moves. It comes from paying attention. The Wake-Up Moment “I used to think that being ‘good’ meant knowing a […]
Speak Up, Ladies: Why Faking It Isn’t the Flex You Think It Is
Let’s be real: so many of us grew up thinking that if we didn’t climax from sex, it was our fault. That maybe our bodies were broken. That we were too complicated. That we just needed to relax and it would magically happen. Spoiler: it’s not your fault. And no, your body isn’t broken. Here’s […]
Men, Pay ATTENTION: The Real Secret to Great S*x
Most of the messages men get about sex are loud, performative, and kind of… wrong. You’re told to last forever. Be dominant. Take control. And sure, confidence is sexy. But you know what’s even sexier? Presence. Because great sex isn’t just about what you do—it’s about what you notice. Forget Performance. Start Paying Attention. “I […]
Why Talking About Sex Makes It 10x Better
We talk about everything with our partners—what to eat, where to go, which show to binge next.But when it comes to sex? We freeze up. We assume. We guess. We fake it. All because no one taught us that talking about sex is just as important as having it. Here’s the truth: Great sex doesn’t […]
GET IT Girl: Why Waiting for Him to Get It Right Is Overrated
Women wanting sex – still gets side-eyed We’re told to be desirable, not demanding. To be wanted, not wanting. To lie back and hope for the best, instead of standing up and asking for better. But that version of sex? It’s over. Dead. Buried with bad lighting and silent moans. This is your permission slip […]